fuckit.  I cant do it anymore.  I can no longer go to my current hairdresser.......aside from being a pretty average hairdresser, engaging in conversation with her is just too fucking painful, she has no brain and no values.  Generally when i'm confronted with someone like this i find a positive in their personality and focus on it.  I've been trying hard to find one but  i'm now quite sure that her personality lacks any redeeming qualities.